When we are fearful

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When we are fearful, angry, anxious, unhappy, or jealous, are we truly experiencing a state of love? They sure feel different, don’t they? Love feels warm, open, joyous and filled with a deep sense of appreciation. Pain steps into a love relationship when you switch it from a «wanted relationship,» into a «needed relationship.» You don’t NEED any one relationship. Want? Yes. Need? No.
If you go into a relationship not feeling terribly good about yourself, you’re more likely to become dependent on your partner to help you feel good about yourself. If we felt empty before they appeared in our lives, we fear the emptiness returning if they leave, so their staying with us becomes paramount. That dependency can create all kinds of fear and unhappiness when there’s a perceived threat to you staying together.

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